Looking Beyond the Problem
At Hove Counseling, a client is not seen as a problem to be fixed but rather as a person to be discovered.
Specialties
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Anxiety
"The best use of creativity is imagination. The worst use of creativity is anxiety." -- Deepak Chopra
At Hove Counseling, Tracy asks her clients to become curious about their anxiety. Too often the goal of therapy is to eliminate negative symptoms. Subsequently, therapy becomes about prescribing skills rather than truly seeing the client and their struggle. This approach is short sited. Tracy works with clients to better understand their anxiety, it's roots, the purpose it has served as well as its adverse impacts. In this way, clients are invited to reframe anxious triggers and self regulate their emotions with acceptance and compassion.
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Depression
“The ego is as you think of yourself. You in relation to all the commitments of your life, as you understand them. The self is the whole range of possibilities that you've never even thought of. And you're stuck with you're past when you're stuck with the ego. Because if all you know about yourself is what you found out about yourself, well, that already happened. The self is a whole field of potentialities to come through.”
― Joseph Campbell
At Hove Counseling, clients journey into the thoughts, beliefs, and experiences that trigger insecurities, inaction, and hopelessness. Along side Tracy, they discover paths to reclaiming their power and voice.
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Trauma
“Trauma is perhaps the most avoided, ignored, belittled, denied, misunderstood, and untreated cause of human suffering.” – Peter Levine
Trauma can have a profound impact on a person's mental health and well-being. At Hove Counseling, Tracy allows clients the opportunity to process their past wounds. Traumatic events are explored safely and with careful guidance.
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Coaching
"When I Let go of what I am, I become what I might be." -- Lao Tzu
Coaching is helpful for those looking for guidance and support in navigating personal goals, life choices, and relationship changes. Whether it's exploring one's personal identity, establishing or making career moves, navigating responsibilities as a parent, or shifting roles in a partnership, coaching can be a supportive tool in the journey.
* Please note, coaching is not therapy and does not aim to treat or diagnose a mental health disorder
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Couples Conflict
“We cannot make another person change his or her steps to an old dance, but if we change our own steps, the dance no longer can continue in the same predictable pattern.”― Harriet Lerner
Strong relationships are the foundation of a healthy and happy life. Yet relationships are also the source of strife and confusion. At Hove Counseling, Tracy offers relationship counseling. She works closely with couples to develop personalized treatment plans that help them better understand their relationship needs, how to express those needs, and how to set stronger boundaries.
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Family Conflict
“No blame, no reasoning, no argument, just understanding. If you understand, and you show that you understand, you can love, and the situation will change.” – Thich Nhat Hanh
Family quarrels are generally rooted in the 3 B's: being seen, being heard, and boundaries. At Hove Counseling, Tracy uses her vast experience in family therapy to better facilitate how to see and hear one another. She then provides coaching and direction on setting clear boundaries and limits within family relationships.
Tracy’s Approach
At Hove Counseling, Tracy's approach begins with story. It is impossible to understand one's self without reflecting on our life experiences. In other words, we need to tell our story. By thoughtfully looking at our history we can better understand its impact on ourselves and our current relationships.
Tracy's modality in counseling and coaching is founded upon decades of experience in individual, group, and family therapy. Tracy’s passion is illuminating the fractured ways in which we view ourselves and, in turn, hijack our potential. With a caring but directive approach, Tracy guides us in creating a new narrative, unlocking our freedom to choose and create different experiences, connections, and foster more meaning and purpose in our day to day life.
Our Services
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Individual Therapy
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Couples Counseling
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Coaching
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Family Therapy
“Hove Counseling helped me find a therapist that I connected with, whose services aligned with my needs, and who was flexible with their scheduling. Hove Counseling helped me check off all the boxes.”
— LISA H., HOVE COUNSEING CLIENT